I felt at home in a group of women, and how safe and amazing it felt to be among women, and I meant it when I first got into (liberal) feminism, years ago.
My whole life I’ve instinctively excluded males from my own circle whenever feasible; never ever felt safe around men or guys from the age that is young. Even while a youngster I’d those obsessions that are innocent feminine buddies and older feminine family relations, but hardly ever really admired or taken notice of any guys or guys except whenever I had been frightened of these. Mostly i do believe this is because of being a lesbian, but notably and to the truth that yes, women and girls are objectively safer visitors to be around, and I also could note that (even dogs and cats can easily see that).
Nevertheless the more I develop and mature, the greater the way I communicate with the spaces that are female my entire life changes… and never for the higher. I believe possibly as a result of the known undeniable fact that I’m an adult now, I’m being allowed (by older feminine family members, as an example) a window of observation in to the real life of proper females under patriarchy, and it’s also troubling.
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